I Give Up Study Guide: The Secret Joy of a Surrendered LifeGiving up control in little ways is uncomfortable for everyone. Giving up control in major facets of our daily life is the last thing any of us wants to do. But letting go of control trusting God over your entire life, that's called surrenderand whether we like it or not, it's the one sure way to experience abundant life. But I dont want to surrender! Have you ever felt those words bubbling up so deep inside you want to shout? Its normal. Its natural.